I feel very fortunate to have never been a victim of sexual assault. I've experienced the everyday sexism of cat-calling, mansplaining, and struggling to find decent pockets in my pants. I've been groped while out at a bar or a party, but I've been lucky enough that when I pulled away, rolled my eyes, or yelled "fuck you" I wasn't attacked or further violated. I wish my experience could be what every woman experiences, but I know that's not the case. I've had friends who've been assaulted. I've read stories of women (and men and nonbinary people) across the Internet every time a new celebrity or politician is accused of sexual misconduct, assault, or rape. I stand by those people because I know it happens, and it is through some fortunate circumstances in my life that I haven't been a victim.
I wasn't born yet when Anita Hill testified against Clarence Thomas. With the local news, I can imagine how terrible of a circus that was, and how brave she was for speaking her truth. I'm disappointed that so many didn't believe her, but I respect how she stood up. She paved the way for Dr. Christine Blasey Ford to testify today, and I am grateful for Anita Hill.
I believe women. I believe sexual assault survivors. Talking about one's trauma is incredibly difficult, and I know I would be terrified to speak to Congress on national television about my own personal trauma. How women, and other victims, have the courage to do this is incredible. They will receive no glory and accolades. They've already received death threats and slander in the news. Nevertheless, they persist, in an attempt to make this world a little better. I am listening to these stories, and I hope everyone does too. Listen with empathy, and try to understand that this is not something any single person would do lightly.
I believe Dr. Christine Blasey Ford.
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